37 weeks pregnant, boyfriend left me... his parents still dont know?

[puddin]

okay well im 37 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend decided he wants nothing to do with me or the baby. He still hasnt told his parents about me being pregnant and i think they should know. Should i tell them? and if i do tell them how do you think they will react? im really scared.

[Rooney06]

i reckon they have a right to know, if it was my grandchild i would atleast want the chance to have some kind of relationship with it. but tats just me its up to you, i always find puttin myself in the situation makes me make a better choice.

[muttley]

im in the same dilemma apart from my one problem is that his mum only speaks punjabi.
Im nearly 23 weeks pregnant and babys dad decided to do a runner too after i refused to abort my baby. He doesnt want anything to do with our daughter when shes born and somehow i doubt his family even know as im a white girl and they are sikh, meaning I would cause nothing but shame on his family
I have a friend that can handwrite a letter to her in Urdu but I think I may just leave him alone and just let the csa deal with him.
Im angry as I loved the man very much but Im just telling myself its HIS LOSS .
I hope tht if they get to now about your baby that they will be supportive of you. If not, Im sure you will be just fine......keep your chin up......you have a lfetime of love to come your way from your child and he will be missing that xx

[minniewowo]

hi there, oh dear what a situation! i dont understand why men do these things? my dad did a similar thing when i was born, he's like an ostrich he sticks his head in the ground when theres something happening that he dont like! the word coward springs to mind! lol in your position, depending on how well you know the parents i would arrange a meet with them somwhere, nowhere public because your bound to see someone you dont want to, so maybe invite them round to yours. tell them the situation you are in & tell them "even if he is your son you have no idea the hurt he's caused me!" say that you dont want to row but your willing to come to an arrangement if they want to, then the balls in there court you dont need to do anything else.
sami
xxx